Dear High School and College Graduates,
Congratulations to the Class of 2025!
Each May I write a letter to the graduating seniors with my perspective on this important transition. Last year I suggested that graduates continue to cultivate a habit of being kind. This year’s message is:
“Many things are important but few things really matter.”
The Illusion of Importance
In the whirlwind of today’s life, you are constantly bombarded with tasks, obligations, and distractions that demand your attention. This will continue throughout your life. Society conditions us to believe that everything is important. It is easy to become trapped in a cycle of urgency, constantly reacting to external demands. You feel there is not enough time in the day to get things done and often feel exhausted.
You have likely relied on your parents, teachers and others to tell you what is important. That is natural. When you allow yourself, as an adult, to be consumed by what others deem important, you risk neglecting behaviors and activities that are meaningful to you and have a positive impact on others. If you spent more time on things that matter might it change the way you approach life, work, and relationships?
So, What Really Matters?
If we strip away societal expectations, peer approval and superficial concerns, we are left with a handful of things that can hold deep, lasting significance. Relationships, health, personal growth, and a sense of purpose often top this list.
- Relationships – As your life evolves, what you cherish most are the meaningful connections you have built with family, friends and, and those who truly care for you. Relationships outweigh professional achievements or material possessions. Investing in quality relationships brings fulfillment and joy.
- Health – No amount of success or wealth can replace good health. Taking care of your physical, mental, and emotional well-being should be a priority because, without it, you cannot enjoy the things for which you work so hard.
- Purpose and Passion – Pursuing meaningful work, creative endeavors, or a cause greater than yourself gives life a sense of fulfillment. While financial stability is necessary, a paycheck alone does not bring true satisfaction. Finding purpose in what we do makes life richer.
- Inner Peace and Happiness – Many people chase happiness in external achievements, only to find it fleeting. True contentment comes from within—practicing gratitude, mindfulness, and self-acceptance allows us to lead a life of peace.
Understanding that few things truly matter encourages you to say no to unnecessary commitments, focus on deep relationships, and prioritize activities that align with your values. By recognizing this truth, you gain clarity, are more likely to reduce stress, and lead a more purposeful life. In the end, what really matters is not how much you have achieved but what difference you have made.
The world needs your enthusiasm and optimism more than ever. Be courageous and care about what matters.